on the fence with infant baptism

I was raised Methodist. Hubby was raised Lutheran. Both of these denominations believe in infant baptism. Otter was baptized in the Methodist church.

Hubby and I were married in the Methodist church, but we switched to the Wesleyan church about 6 months into our marriage, not because we didn't want to be Methodist, but because there were so many young families at the Wesleyan and it seemed a better fit for us. It was.

We were blessed with an amazing church family and we loved the church. Hubby made leaps and bounds in his walk with Christ, as did I. It was home.

Now we come to one of the big differences between the churches. Baptism. The Wesleyan church does not believe in infant baptism. They think it should be something children choose when they're old enough to understand. Ok, I get it. Hubby had a 3 hour conversation with the pastor about it which convinced him that this was the way to go. Therefore when Raven was born we did not have her baptized.

The Wesleyan church does dedications instead, which is basically the parents dedicating to raise their child to walk with Christ. Makes sense.

Now we are in a new place, and attending an E-Free/Berean combination, who also does not believe in infant baptism. A church we also love.

But now I'm teaching at a Lutheran school, which made me question our beliefs of baptism. Lutherans believe that baptism is not about us choosing God, but about God choosing us, that it's God's work in us, not our work in God. Ok, that makes sense to me too.

So now what??????

Hubby and I have both been baptized twice, as infants and as adults. Our church acknowledges our adult baptism, the Lutheran church acknowledges our first baptism.

Neither of the girls have been baptized or dedicated. We're planning a dedication in December, but I would really like them baptized, as would our Lutheran and Methodist families. But Hubby's not budging.

Now let me make myself clear. I do NOT believe my girls are going to hell because they aren't baptized, and neither does the Lutheran or Methodist churches. I do NOT believe the Holy Spirit is not in my girls because they haven't been baptized. God loves us all.

Can't we all just love Jesus without the different beliefs? It's so confusing. I feel torn between my two church families and I don't like it.

I'd really appreciate hearing your views on the subject. Do you believe in infant baptism? Why or why not?

people in review #23

Inside Courteney Cox and David Arquette's Split

What what what what what what what? How did I not hear about this? Will anyone survive Hollywood?

Sister Wives Star Hopes He Won't Be Jailed for 'Loving Four Women'

This is messed up. Seriously seriously messed up.

Christina Aguilera Files for Divorce

And yet another.

Neil Patrick Harris Welcomes 'Happy, Healthy' Twins

The conversation: (watching him on Glee.) Me: He's gay. Hubby: Doogie Howser's gay? Me: He's Doogie Howser? Ya I totally didn't know that. I never did watch that show though.

Jessica Simpson Declares: I'm in Love!

There's a shocker. Jessica Simpson's in love for the 27th time this year.

Star Rutgers Football Player Paralyzed Below the Neck During Game

Otter's never playing football.

Jackson Rathbone to Treat Twilight Costars to 'Good-Old Home Cooking'

Can I come?

Jodie Foster Calls Mel Gibson 'Most Loved Man in Film Business'

Um...... I don't believe that's the case. (Read on.)

Shannen Doherty: I Was Never as Bad as Today's Troubled Party Girls

I must agree.

Is Prince Harry Dating a Rock Star?

When I was in Junior High reading about Prince William in Scholastic News, I totally believed I would marry him someday. If Katie can get Tom surely it's possible.

Dancing: Jennifer Grey and Derek Hough Explain Backstage Blow-Up

Holy smack I did NOT know Jennifer Grey was on DWTS! She's be worth watching! Did you know she's 50? Holy crap!

Lea Michele Is 'Proud' She Never Got a Nose Job

Just wait. The fame will poison her and she'll get a nose job.

Sweet Valley Confidential: Ten Years Later's Cover Revealed

Ah, Sweet Valley High, takes me back.

Meet the World's Longest Cat, Stewie!

Holy Mackerdaps that is a long cat. Somewhat disturbing.

POLL: Are GQ's Photos of Glee Girls Too Racy?

Seriously what does fame do to people? The pole is about 50/50.

Lisa Marie Presley: Michael Jackson Couldn't Be Saved

True.

Mel Gibson Cameo in The Hangover 2 Canceled

The cast and crew complained about working with him so he was replaced. Ouch. Maybe not as loved as Jodie thought.

Jersey Shore Season 3: Will You Watch?

That would be a no.

Octomom's Doctor Tearfully Apologizes, Admits Mistake

Trying to think of a witty comment but words fail me.

Michelle Williams Is the New Marilyn Monroe

Good fit? I can't decide.

How Sexy Is Miley Cyrus's New Video?

And yes, the Disney days are over.

Eminem: I Don't Use Profanity at Home

And I don't skip breakfast.

you tell me

I was pretty excited when asked to do a review for CSN Stores. My giveaway for them a while back was a great success and we are enjoying the bookshelf we purchased.

Now that I have a job and some extra money I'm trying to convince Hubby to redecorate....ahem.....decorate our house. We've lived here for a year and there's still nothing on the walls in our living room except for the kids' pictures. It's pathetic. And since we're on the subject of redecorating, is this ottoman coffee table cute or what?!?


I know.

So stay tuned for my upcoming review. If I don't get something for the house I'm thinking about getting some rain boots. Been wanting some forever. Do you like these or these?

i'd like to thank the academy...

or Purseblogger, for featuring me as Favorite Lady of the Week on her blog. You rock Laura! Thanks a bundle for all your bloggy support!

people in review #22

Lisa Rinna Goes Under Knife to Reduce Upper Lip

Botox gone wrong. Seriously seriously wrong.

Carrie Underwood Finds Marriage 'A Lot Like Dating'

Just wait a few years.

Penélope Cruz Is 4½-Months Pregnant

News to me.

Blake Lively: I Want Lots of Babies

Have 1 first. Then I'll ask you again.

Kate Gosselin: I'm in the Best Shape of My Life

You showed us. On the cover of People in your bikini. Nice.

LeAnn Rimes Explains Why She Cheated

Seriously?

Why Is Raising Sextuplets's Bryan Masche Smiling in His Mug Shot?

Quite amusing actually. Don't know that I've ever seen that before.

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher Defy Talk of Marriage Trouble

Is it me or do marriage trouble rumors always seem to be true? Time reveals.

Jenny McCarthy Says Relationship with Jim Carrey Stopped Being Fun

And this, my friends, is why some people can't commit.

Twilight Saga Gets New Blood with Two More Actresses

Do I seriously have to wait another year to see the next movie? C'mon!

Brad Womack Admits: I Was a Commitment-Phobe

Did you watch his season? Something fishy went down there if you ask me. I think it's total crap he's the Bachelor AGAIN.

Heidi Montag Calls Off Divorce, Reconciles with Spencer Pratt

There are no words.

Source: Lindsay Lohan 'Really Needs Help from Professionals'

Are we just now establishing this?

Will You Watch Paris Hilton's New Reality Show?

Negative.

Private Practice Stars Promise 'Juicy Romance'

YES!

Vanessa Minnillo Showers 'Twice a Day' with Nick Lachey

For "conversation." They each have their own shower head. I must admit I've always wanted a shower like that.

let it begin

A 3 DAY WEEKEND! Woohoo! I survived my first parent teacher conferences this week. I have been blessed with 11 marvelous students. Otter and I have made strides in our teacher/student relationship which makes life much easier.

The girls love their daycare provider and so do I.

Life is practically perfect. {Just add a maid and personal chef and we'd be good to go.}

My dad bought Otter the Iron Man 2 movie. We watched it last night. I have to say it was awesome. Tony Stark is hot. If you haven't seen it you must!

Today my bff and her baby are coming to visit. Looking forward to some quality time with them.

I've found a new love for thrift! I've pretty much purchased new wardrobes for everyone in our family, which means 5 times the laundry. I'm working on packing up older clothes to take them to consignment. I figure at thrift prices I can buy a new wardrobe every year. :)

Have a great weekend!